Maybe......

Maybe you have experienced something that hurts so much that it puts a dark cloud over all that is good and joyful in your life. 

Maybe you wake in the morning and you have a moment when reality has not yet clicked in and you feel normal, and then it hits you like a mac truck. 

Maybe you mourn, maybe you get angry, maybe you cried some more. 

Maybe you pray, maybe you let someone else in to carry the burden just for awhile. 

Maybe it's you

Maybe it's someone you love

Maybe it's cancer

Maybe it's an addiction

Maybe it's old age

Maybe it's heartbreak 

Maybe it's an opinion

Maybe it true

Maybe it's not





Maybe you will never get over it, maybe you will....

Maybe what comes from it is part of God's plan

Maybe you find a way to feel useful in the situation

Maybe you gather information, make an action plan and feel more in control of the situation.
Maybe you begin to move forward, seeing a different path for your journey. 

Maybe you make sense of it,

Maybe you become stronger from it

Maybe you find strength in a person who needs you as much as you need them

Maybe you will believe me when I say:

You are smart 

You are strong

You are beautiful

And Korben would add:You are powerful 

You are never alone

                                  kristen heather xo

 (Drafted Feb 2014, now seemed like a perfect time to post)

Happy 10th birthday Brodie James

Ten Years! 10 years! TEN YEARS OLD......how can this be? 

Brodie has had an amazing year take a look:

Someday this boy is going to melt hearts

Brodie the great explorer.

He asked me today if he will be successful when he grows up....
I told he will be what he wants to be with hard work 

2013 Halloween

Someday soon being silly in public might be harder to do

Read our Christmas letter to learn more about this one

Grade 3 completed. We are very proud of his accomplishments

I believe parents are the practice run to how we form our future relationships.
 The dynamics between father and son are so different than mama & son.
I love watching them together.

(Just a side note Brodie wore these pants today and they are too short)

First Concert Great Big Sea March 17/13

Being a big brother might be good practice for becoming a father/uncle or maybe a dog trainer someday.
I laugh so hard listening to the two of them...

Brodie is 10, he is amazing in so many different ways. He is caring, and thoughtful. He asks more questions than there are answers. He notices things that other kids his age miss.
He loves family celebrations.
He has started guitar lessons, he does archery with Dad. He loves to play video games, shooting a bb gun. He loves his quality time with mama, and accepts the rare occasion I'm not here at bedtime.
Girls have been invited to his birthday for the last 2 years. He loves learning about God, science, history. (He watches the history channel or sponge bob before school).

 He likes to know the plan for any given day. He still loves lizards, frogs and snakes. He calls himself a country boy and never wants to move away from his friends.

He is my amazing gift that I am so thankful for. 

I will love you forever and for always Brodie, you make me so proud!

Happy Birthday 

                                   
                                                           
                                                          kristen heather
                                                                         

                                               xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo

She is back!

Our Elf Stacy returned the 1st week of December and we have been enjoying every minute, take a look:

          No laying around on the job, it is time to start having fun

The weather outside is frightful but Brodie's new hat is delightful. 

With the help of the staff at shelmerdins Brodie picked out, paid and had a gift wrapped for his Mama.... Hands off Stacy! 

( I can't wait to open it)!

Candy cane cookies and milk, yum!

After school The milk was gone and most of the cookies.

Christmas airplanes and new friends = one happy elf

Stacy gave a little magic to the Bombers, 

Go team S we are not sure if that is for Stacy or Santa, but we do like the mittens and mohawks.

Are those wedding bells we hear Stacy.... Glad to see the couple was buckeled in because this baby drives fast.

Too much excitement last night, but really sleeping in the bathroom? !  A certain  family member was glad she was in a basket so he could move her into the hall when a little privacy was needed.

My newest Lia Sophia customer! She liked it so much she signed up to sell! 

Chocolate Chocolate yum

 This one was hard to capture on my phone....you know how you can walk into a room and your not really sure what you have missed.... We are not sure why Harry Potter and friends tied her up, but it did open up a whole new conversation about what else goes on while we sleep and since when do Lego move around on its own.....good question. 

Sweaters must be new to this elf.... We removed the hanger she left in before putting it on. Oh Stacy!

             kristen heather

Christmas 2013

I'm sitting here trying to figure out a good place to start.... this is the first year I'm not going to add our Christmas letter with our card, so I am glad you were able to stop and take a peak.

 It's funny how life fluctuates, activity levels, motivation levels, health and wellness. I've always thought Christmas would be less stressful if it occurred in a warmer month.

We spend July to October rushing from work to daycare to home to football and back, Brodie's team practised three times a week with 1 weekend game. It's a lot of time and energy for all of us. Korben loves it and is always happy to come along.

Brodie received an awarded this year, it is given to one player on the team that demonstrates a love and and a passion for the game. Coach Jeremy praised Brodie all year for being flexible and willing to play any position the team needed. During an out of town game the team was struggling with the heat and injuries and some of the kids didn't want to play. Coach said Brodie told us "He didn't drive 2 hours to go home at half time"! 
Its amazing what a year can do, Brodie struggled last year trying new positions and he took a lost game as a tragedy. His team won 1 game this year and he never complained, he came off the field smiling and happy to go back the next day for more.

What a difference a good leader makes to a team....
What a difference a good teacher makes to learning...
What a difference when people truly care, and take the time to listen to each other

When I became a parent I did not realise how many people would touch our lives. I didn't know how much faith and trust I would need. I thought the hardest part was building and birthing them....that was a walk in the park. 

September Korben will start school, he will be 5 at the end of October!  He is so excited for Christmas this year. He is really hoping Santa brings him a walking dinosaur we saw at Target. He was dreaming last night and talking about that dinosaur. He asks throughout the day for hugs and uppies, and I take it all in. He loves his bedtime stories and sharing an apple with me. Meadow waits close by for whatever is left....who knew dogs would enjoy apple cores.

This will be our 6th Christmas in the house in the country, we moved December 1, 2008. Brodie just said he has been here for more than 1/2 his life and this is the only place Korben has known as home.
Would we do it all over again.............Will we stay here forever? Its hard to say.....but for now we will play in the snow, stomp through the bush, watch the wild life with wonder, and let it all sink in deep inside and fill us with peace.

May you find your adventure and peace in 2014

                                     love kristen, jason, brodie, korben & meadow

                                                            xo xo

If you made it this far we would love for you to add your name below.....think of it as your gift to us, thanks

                                               kristen heather

Before the clocks fall back............

Before we go to sleep tonight, we will move all the clocks back an hour; but before we do lets look at a time well spent over the last few months:

A time to win with the help of a friend

A time to ride

A time to be glad we forgot..... and had to come back

A time to be big

A time to be free

A time to watch

A time to show

A time to remember

A time to play

                                                            A time to stop

              A time to work as a team

A time for two

A time to catch

A time to let go

            A time to cheer

A time to cool off

A time to hang out

A time to carry

A time to create

A time to rest

A time to remember a promise that is true

A time for my old friend

A time together

A time apart

A time for thanksgiving,

A time to celebrate

kristen heather